The Pleasure men enjoy in marriage, by Amina Muhammad Iye

A word to married men from Amina Muhammad Yusuf .

This small piece with a little Hausa translation differ on marital life mostly in northern part of Nigeria kano as a case study.

Furthermore it explains the wrong men indulge when marrying a second wife, they plan wrongly and also categorize some level of impunity in doing or applying justice to both wives.

   Below is the little advice from Mrs Amina Muhammad Iye.

"Its not about Ina da kudi zan Kara aure, it's about yin adalci a zahiri, its about u having the time, attention, care, e.t.c da zaka raba tsakaninsu. Aure isn't all about providing food, shelter, and clothing to ur spouse, its more than that...u cant have two wives ka aje daya a kano daya a kogi, baka zuwa wurin wacca take kogi sai after two months and ko ka je u just spend only two days ka dawo kano, wannan ba adalci bane, if u knw baka da time gara ka zauna da Matar ka daya yafi ma ka alkhairi,   da maza sun san zunubin da yake cikin rashin adalci da dayawa baza suyi shaawan Kara aure ba....Allah ya bawa mazaje ikon yin adalci"

Some challenging words Hausa related a tribe in northern Nigeria.
Aure - marriage
Adalci- transparent
Matar ka - ones wife
Dayawa- many
Mazaje- men
Zauna- sit
Kara aure - additional wife
Rashin adalci- lack of transparency